Better to be patient than powerful;
Better to have self-control than to conquer city.
Message: Exercising patience
Time: Proverbs records multiple individuals as its author with Solomon as the principal author. Solomon died in 931 BC though most think the book was likely in its final form sometime before the end of Hezekiah’s reign in 686 BC. It is a book that instructs people on the path of wisdom. It speaks to all of life and living our lives under the authority and direction of God.
What the Lord is Saying: In the NASB which I normally read it says, "He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and who who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city." Our Sunday School teacher offered this text from the NLT with the word patience. From slow to anger to patience. Most one-verse proverbs have one contrast within them, but this one has two.
Patient > Powerful; Self-control > Conquer
Slow to anger > Mighty; Rules his spirit > Captures a City
In the class, (1/18) the teacher asked for examples of situations in life where in which we struggle with patience. Responses mentioned driving, waiting in lines, other people that don't meet our expectations. I also think of the ways in which we are trained to not be patient - like the internet that allows to get on line in a moment. I am reminded of Europe in which it is also mentioned meal time takes a while. I think often times we have sat down to eat and other people sit down, eat and leave so quickly it seems. Even in other things in life, like the availability of TV shows to watch, able to watch any sporting event, live stream events. There is so little patience available or waiting or delayed gratification. And so we tend to be quick to be bothered.
Someone once said, "Patience is a virtue we value in others, but ignore in ourselves." I think this could be said about a lot of things we want in others. I think even our claim that we are always busy is an issue of impatience in that we don't take time to reflect on other things.
In this verse, patience is contrasted with being powerful or mighty. Power is on great display in our world today as many people want to be powerful. War is a significant problem in our world today as many people have a desire for control over others. So to say patience is greater than this or being slow to anger or slow to conflict means we take the time to consider others and not simply what we want. The second part of the verse also mentions conquering a city.
The verse also links patience with self-control. Self-control is delaying gratification and focus on what matters. It is foregoing immediate desires. Like an adolescent waiting for marriage rather than engaging in sex. Or waiting for marriage rather than living together now. It is interesting how new phones or something new comes out and people line up to be the first one to have one. We want it now. We want our news now. We have fast internet and we want things now. We aren't willing to have self-control. Self-control seems needed but why do we need patience?
Romans 5:3-4 says that suffering produces patient endurance. Patience decreases negative feelings because things often do not work out in the way we would like. It improves our mental and physical health by reducing stress, fostering resilience, and enabling decision making. Again, setbacks will happen.
Prayer: Lord, I see how often I am trained to not be patient or slow to things. There can be a constant rush to get to the next item and conquer the next problem. At times I do not stop at work to evaluate or think more about why I am doing what I am doing. It is hard Lord and I feel like little is being accomplished at times. Lord, train me to be patient in my life. Train me to ponder because there are many things that have to wait. I need my stress to reduce. Thank for the joy of reading and studying Your word. Help me to get to all of the things in my life that mean something and be there for others. It is hard Lord to make this happen. It is hard for me to be consistent.
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